Wednesday, January 18, 2012

A trip I won't forget

Last weekend Tyson, Leo, Dahlia and I went on a "camping" trip with our friends (the Martinez family) and a group of their friends as well. We met them through the preschool, as Leo is BFFs with their one of their sons, Ziggy. Oh, and "camping" is in quotes because it was more like luxury lodging, since we went to Duck Creek Village, UT and it's entirely too cold to do any camping there that doesn't involve a big beautiful luxury cabin! Anyways, I digress... So we left Saturday morning and stayed through the long weekend until Monday. The cabin we rented out was awesome: 6 bedrooms, plenty of room for all of the kids to run around and for all of the adults to have some space too.

What says great trip better than a packed fridge?
Leo, Ziggy, Amadeus, and their snowman

Like father, like son. Getting ready to go sledding

Leo & Ziggy making snow angels

I absolutely ADORE the family that invited us to go- they are just genuinely good people and I'm really looking forward to the memories our families will continue to make together. Our weekend was filled with lots of screams from the kids playing (and of course occasionally fighting), new friends, good meals, plenty of beer & wine!, s'mores, hot chocolate, football watching, games of apples to apples, sledding, snow-man building, the creation of many inside jokes [damn, Toby!], and lots of laughter. The whole trip was amazing, especially the last night by the fire pit out back and the follow up adult-time that went on until 3am. Great times with great people.

Mirna and Maximus
Before.
After.

::BUT this is where the story turns::
We left the cabin Monday afternoon, and decided to follow the Martinez' home since it had started to snow. I drove first and on our way down the mountain by Brian Head the snow started to get pretty difficult to drive in. At that point I should have stopped and put the chains on the tires, but we didn't since we were anxious to get out of there before it got worse. I will NOT make this mistake again. Because as we continued down the mountain the snow was fresh and pretty slippery so the Jeep started sliding and I started to lose control. In attempt to correct it I definitely overcorrected (big mistake that thankfully had no impact) and we brushed up against the guardrail/wall on the right hand side of the road. *HUGE GASP* I adjusted my approach at this point but continued driving, this time much slower (and now I see that this was another mistake I had made- because the wheels were probably not moving fast enough to get all the snow off). Not even five minutes later the same thing happens again and we start sliding right. This time there was no guardrail just an embankment leading to a 30+ foot drop off into a ravine. So I step on the brakes and we keep sliding and once we're about 2 feet from the embankment and I am convinced that we're going over the edge I pull the Emergency brake with as much force as I possibly could while Tyson braced himself in the passenger seat next to me... and we came to a sudden halt. Thank you, Jeep manufacturing & every brake service we've ever had done, the flippin' E-brake worked perfectly. *HUGEST GASP of my life* In fact at this time, I sort of felt like I was going to black out and I think Tyson realized that since he put the car in park as we're sitting on the edge of the road and he told me to get out so he could drive. At this point I kid you not, the voice on the radio that was still playing said "Hey, glad that you're here with us now!" which made me start bawling and breathing really fast, so I grabbed the bag of cucumbers that I had cut up before we had started driving (which had probably about 20 cucumber stalks) and started eating them without thinking one after the other until the bag was empty. Sounds ridiculous, yes - but at the time I just needed to think about/do something else. Our friends actually saw what happened and they backed up to make sure everything was okay, so Tyson assured them we were alright & that we just wanted to continue on down the mountain. Rest of the story is we [clearly] made it home safe- but that was without a doubt the ABSOLUTE. SCARIEST. MOMENT. OF. MY. LIFE. I have never been in such a panicked state with my children involved. It was absolutely horrible. Tyson and I both had nightmares about it on Monday night, and I don't know that I'll ever forget it.

A shot Tyson took of the snow starting to get bad, before 'the incident'
And as for now, I'm thinking that we'll just stay in Vegas forEVER! so that I never have to drive in the snow again. ***Sigh***

"Glad I'm here with ya now!"


~☮ & ♥ to you all~

Wednesday, January 11, 2012

Sugar Mama

Yesterday Leo and I were painting while Dahlia was taking a nap and we were having a pretty sweet conversation. This is about how it went:

Leo: I really have a lot of things in my head, mom.
Me: Oh yeah? Things like what?
Leo: Things I don't know and I wanna ask ya about 'em.
Me: Ok, what do you want to ask?
[he stops painting and thinks for about a minute]
Leo: What do you wanna be when you grow up, mom?
Me: I'm going to school so that I can be a lawyer
Leo: Yeah, and daddy's gonna be a husband when he grows up because his job is just to love you"
Me: [laughing] But what about daddy's job driving ambulances now and helping people who are hurt?
Leo: yeah he does that now, but when you are a lawyer he's gonna just be a husband. It'll be good, mommy.

Hahaha! And that is where he stopped asking questions, but as he is my inquisitive little boy I am certain that he'll have many more for me today. So I don't know where he heard this (probably from Tyson) but it's actually pretty accurate because we do plan on having Tyson home with the kids once I'm an attorney. I just find it so funny that my son is basically saying that not only am I going to be a lawyer when I "grow up" but I'm also going to be a sugar mama. What a funny kid.

I wonder what else is going on in that wonderful big head of his...

Have a great day, everyone

~☮ & ♥ to you all~

Tuesday, January 10, 2012

Kansas City

Last Wednesday Leo, Dahlia and I took off on a plane with my sister Gabi and brother Charlie to Kansas City, Missouri to visit our family. Leo actually went back over the summer just a couple weeks after Dahlia was gone (for a WHOLE week!) with my mom & siblings, but I haven't been there in over two years. So this trip I got to spend some much needed time with my grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins. At first I was actually a little nervous traveling with two little ones and no Tyson (he stayed home and worked) but I'm pretty lucky to have such amazing siblings who continuously helped me keep the kids occupied while we traveled. It helps that "tio" (what Leo calls Charlie) is the favorite and I'm pretty sure Leo listens to him better than me...

We stayed with my grandparents while we were there and enjoyed ourselves relaxing at their house in the country, getting Leo & Dahlia together with cousins, had a few game/dinner nights at cousins houses, Leo had a pajama party/sleep over at my aunt's house, and my grandma even threw me a surprise graduation party. Overall it was an amazing trip & I can't wait to go back again soon - hopefully before too long.

**if you click on the collages it will enlarge the pictures**

Dahlia's first plane ride... Leavin' Las Vegas


I remembered to take a few pictures while we were there


Leo taking a ride on great-grandpa Ray's big tractor (if you look closely he's tucked away in the cab in the red jacket


Dahlia in THE high chair. Each of my grandparents 6 children, 20 grandchildren (including me!), and 15 great grand-children have sat in this high chair at least once.



Dahlia and her great-grandma Pat


Dahlia and her great-grandpa Ray


Leo and his cousin Chase


I'm so happy we got to go. My grandparents home is quite possibly the warmest [figuratively speaking, of course] place on earth and it is so filled with love and togetherness. While I was there I rediscovered the importance of valuing my family above all else & although that might seem like an obvious concept, I think it's one that can be all too easy to forget. I'm a lucky girl, and I'm not going to forget that.



~☮ & ♥ to you all~

Tuesday, January 3, 2012

Whoa whoa, father time... slow it down a bit.

Today my baby Dahl is six months old. Wow. I can't believe that half of a year has gone by since this amazing baby has come into our lives.

This girl of mine is going to be so fun to watch grow up(although I'm sure she'll give us quite the challenge as well!); she has got so much personality. At six months she already has a spunky little attitude about her and is so full of joy & curiosity. Last month she started crawling (well, scooting at first) and has continued on with her babbling to the point that I'm sometimes convinced she has full on conversations with herself. I've actually just started working on teaching her the little bit of sign language I know, with the help of her big brother who learned at about 8 months. It's so cute & funny to see Leo repeatedly try to teach her the sign for "brother" -- especially when I know Dahlia is still a little too young to retain any of this. I'm sure in a few months that will be her first sign though :)

As for everything else, our sweet D still has the most unbelievably heart-melting blue baby blues, and she loves music and giggles hysterically when anyone dances while holding her. My dad is especially good at getting her to laugh. And even though I have a horrible singing voice, for some reason my baby Dahl loves it when I sing to her. Some nights it's the only way I can get her to sleep. But of course, as luck would have it, this little one is just as much of a daddy's girl today as she has been from the very start. It's pretty sweet how much the two of them bond.

Here are the monthly shots I've taken of Dahlia so far with her teddy bear from her auntie Roxana thrown in for scale (thanks for the idea Vicki!)








Happy half birthday, my sweet Dahlia! Love you, mijita.


~☮ & ♥ to you all~

Friday, December 30, 2011

Some Girls Like Superheroes

My mom showed me this last week & I must say, she is a little girl after my own heart.




For some reason I have a sneaking feeling my own children will have similar questions about the world as I continue to attempt to dispel stupid gender norms/expectations for my little ones ;)

~☮ & ♥ to you all~

Thursday, December 29, 2011

Look familiar?

This is what I woke up to this morning:



Now is it just me, or was she channeling this image in her sleep:



ha ha ha! have a great day, everybody.

~☮ & ♥ to you all~

Wednesday, December 28, 2011

Leo-isms, Part Dos

More wonderful quotes from my wonderful son...

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Gabi (my sister) talking to her dog Linus: "come on, baby!" Leo: "why do you call him baby?" Gabi: "because he's my dog- so he's kind of like my baby". Leo: "oh- so then Linus is my nephew."
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Leo: "mom, what's that book about?" [pointing to one of my school books] Me: "It's mommy's book for school- it's about Catholicism and Politics" Leo: "What's Politics?" (apparently he must know what Catholicism is...) Me: "It is the authoritative allocation of values, Leo" Leo: "Oh. That's what I thought it is."
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[Dahlia passes gas] Leo: "[laughs] hey mommy, i think her heart farted!"
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[coughs really hard because he's got strep throat] "Oh GEEZ! I must have a hot cheeto stuck in my neck!"
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[Hands stuck in his jacket] "Look mommy! A ghost cutted off my hands"
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Leo: "mom, why is that guy walking?" Me: "I don't know, Leo, what do you think?" Leo: "he's probably walking to the store so he can buy himself a donut. And bread"
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[After I hand him a pencil he asked me to sharpen] Leo: "mommy, you're a really great sharper"
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Me: "Go put a coat on, it's cold outside" Leo: "I don't need a coat, my skin will keep my bones warm"
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[playing in his room by himself & I walk in to check on him and ask if he needs anything] Leo: "no I don't need anything. But hey mom-?" Me: "Yeah?" Leo: "How do spiders throw up?"
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"Jingle bells - Jingle Bells - Jingle Allthewaaaaaay! Oh what fun it is to ride in a wonder soap and play!"



Until next time...
~☮ & ♥ to you all~